Mentoring is an Art

Life coaching and mentoring is not an easy task to do. Its not something you can just play with. Life like sports also needs coaching and mentoring. In the first world countries life coaching is a high end carrier like business consultants and food consultants. But there are some organization that gives this service for free with the single aim that which is to help other people in making decisions and also to form people so that even without the direction of another they will be able to make an upright decision for themselves and also they can even help the others.

In life coaching and mentoring one should have the disposition to accept some help and the other to help without putting personal biases. There should be openness in both parties. And also trust is an important aspect to be effective in mentoring. There could be some situations in which lack of trust is very obvious but despite if this you must look like you are convince but you must also try to seek more for the truth but it the  person is not willing to open up everything yet then just be contented with the things she told you until she's ready to say the whole truth.

Before becoming a mentor it is important that one has the full perspective of life because you have to deal people of different and varied situations and circumstances. One of the most important thing to study is Philosophy. The study of philosophy helps a person to understand better the flow of things,to know more of the different way of thinking of the person, the different capacities of each individual and through this she can guide the person better. Another things one must learn in mentoring is deepness in knowledge of morality. Morality is something essential in  each person whatever his or her background,believe,religion,knowledge. Morality is the basic knowledge each person has even without realizing it. The Moral Law is etuuten in the heart of every human being born in this world. Therefore no one is exempted to live an upright moral life. It is there so as to create unity and peace among all humanity inspite of our diferrences in culture,language,character,color,etc.

Of course another important factor you need to know being a mentor are the virtues. These are important to be effective in this carrier because in mentoring we are dealing with people who has heart,passions,emotions,and dignity of course. We are not guiding animals. And the subject of this carrier is LIFE itself something we can not commit error. Error is totally prohibited. Life is continues and any wrong actions can never be retrieve.

And the last thing is "WALK YOUR TALK". Example is the best teacher.