Friday, April 10, 2015

Fixing A Broken a Heart


I was laughing as I wrote the title of this post. I found this funny but I thought I could help you who always wanted to help  someone who has a broken heart.

"You know where to start fixing a broken heart",one English song say. Do you also know where to start fixing a broken heart? Here we are going to tackle about this.

A broken heart is always hard to fix. If its a broken tire you can always go to a vulcanizing shop to have it fixed. If its a broken table you can always have it fixed by a carpenter. If its a broken vase you can always glue them together. But a broken heart is the hardest thing to fix.

Sometimes when we see someone who is broken hearted we always feel the pain that the person is suffering especially when we ourselves have experience the same thing before. We always want to help ease the pain but most of the time we don't know what to do.

Here are some tips in this art: fixing a broken heart. The best thing is always to let the person talk about it and you listen. Sometimes things are just too hard because they have no one to talk to. They are not able to air out the ache inside them. Sometimes your job is just to listen to them. Heart ache is like a stone that the person have been carrying for some time,a heavy stone that he can't put down. Help the person out down that stone. Second is to make the person understand that there is no use in remaining in the past, we have to move on,there is always tomorrow. Support the person to move on. Be like a walking cane for him or her. A friend is need is a friend in deed. You can do a lot being a friend. Dont judge the person because always remember you can not judge the heart of the person.
Provide a very logical reason to help the person move on and let him or her feel your support. Let him/ her realize that he/ she is not alone in this field of battle. Making the person busy if doing other things is a big he'll in the produced as of forgetting. Fixing w broken heart is also an art everyone can try to develop.

Do you experience the same pity to your friends suffering from a broken hearted? And you want to help although you don't know where to start? I hope I give you a hint on this art.


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