The art of Courtship

I found myself unbelievable when I thought of this topic. But anyway I still wrote this with the desire to help you readers on how to impress the person whom you like to the point of them liking you too. Courting does not just apply in man to woman relationship. Courting in this post of mine particularly is with regards to the universal scope of it. What I mean to say is that courting could also be applied to your boss for example or to your in-laws or to your workmates and of course to someone you like I mean to the person who you want to be with all your life which the first idea that comes to our mind when talking about courtship.

How to be AMIABLE Or likable person? The first thing and is always the basic thing of everything I think is to "know yourself". Why? Because if you don't know yourself how will you be able to know the others and to let them know you. If you dont know yourself how will you be able to fit yourself in the life if the other. Especially in an biyfriend- girlfriend relationship you telly have to know yourself first and be in full control of it before you start courting the other. This is important because this entails maturity. A mature person is someone who knows and in full control of himself,his strength and weakness,his aims and goals in life,his dreams. You can't be in a relationship while looking for your own self, knowing who you are.

To amiable or likable us not based on your physical appearance, of course its an additional factor but it is not the first thing. As the saying goes " what is the good of a handsome face but the attitude is too bad that even the dogs will reject" . We have to build a good attitude. When you are in full knowledge and in full control of yourself you will surely be able to control your attitude too. Everything has its own timing. Nobody will reject someone who is so good in doing his work, responsible, diligent, full of initiative,respectfull, chherful, punctual,etc. Another factor is your words and manners. Even if the person is so good,so cheerful, so expert in his profession but speaks so badly I mean using ill language and cursing and does not have manners and etiquette he is still equal to nothing.

Another aspect is of course the personal appearance. Surely you will not like someone who looks like goons or someone who looks like a hermit who lives in the mountain cave for decades  and was lost in a big city of the twenty first century with long uncut hair and floor length beard and tattered clothes. First impression lasts they say thus why dont you also look your best.  It doesnt matter if youre beautiful or handsome, what matters is your bearing, the way you carry yourself. And always wear a smile. Once I met a stranger in the road whose shirt reads " You are not fully dressed without a smile". Therefore SMILE and remember  the golden rule DO NOT DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT OTHERS TO DO UNTO YOU.