The Art of a Lasting Relationship

Everyone dreamed of a lasting relationship but sad to say not many relationships lasts. Many think that forever is an impossible thing but is it really? Forever is just a hand stretch away though not many know how to grasp it or lets just say many knows the secret of achieving it but only few dares to face and accept the challenge. If forever is possible,what then is the secret of achieving it and how can we face and accept this challenge?

Relationship are like shoes is a
mutual self giving,one is not useful without the other

In this century when everything is just so easy,fast and swift,we human beings also tend to be fast,easy and swift even in iir relationships. Human being become more and more self-centered. We just think of the I, ME,MY,MINE,MYSELF. We erase from our vocabulary the word YOU,SHE,HE,THEY,OTHERS. And this is the reason why relationship never lasts. A healthy relationship is achieve when nobody think of self. Forget the I,ME,MINE, MY and MYSELF. in every relationship you create or you join,you do it because you want to give yourself. A relationship is a mutual self giving. If only one is carrying the whole load to make the relationship work, it will surely break. It is like a bicycle,when one tire is flat it may move for some distance but it will never last,it will give in and break . you want your relationship to last, stop being selfish. Know your self,know the others and engage yourself the common good. Remember you come to give yourself. Its a mutual self giving. the secret of a lasting relationship is  SELFLESS LOVE.